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  1. Milo Willamson

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    I have been in a long term relationship online, that was around five years ago, I am feeling much happier being single then i was with someone. But "Socitey" is telling me i should jump up again and find someone else though, still I do not do widow's of that nature, too much emotional baggage right then and there, online I feel more happier since everyone's in my moto z 2 force, I am wondering to all geeks on here.

    What is love to you ?

     

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    Well, I can tell you that it’s certainly far more than how you feel.

    And keep away from Howard Jones, too, seems he can pull strings in your relationship if he’s close by...

     
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    No one can explain love to you. When you find that person, it just fits. It isn't like the love you have for parents, grandparents, or siblings. It is very different. It is very hard to love, but when you find it, you do the hard stuff without question. Your someone does the same. I can't explain what love is, even though I know what it is.
     
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    At least until then you amazing people can help me out with my phone :)
     
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    Had to google him, whilst using my cellphone hahaaa :)

    I am keeping away from him as humanily possible :)
     
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    Love is an overwhelming wave of emotion that picks you up off your feet and drops you upside down on a rock.

    Love is also friendship, partnership, trust, admiration.

    Love is also (chemically/physiologically) very similar to a virus.

    Love is also the origin of the worst pain one can endure.

    Love also gives birth to the greatest most uplifting emotions one can experience.

    BUT, all that said, love is unique to each person that feels it. So you still get to find out what love is to you, and that's super exciting. If you think about it.
    :thinking:
     
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    My grandparents were married 69 years and if my grandmother would have lived a few more weeks they would have made it to 70. My parents lasted less then three years. Since the first marriage they have been multiple times.
    I am going on twenty four years of marriage with my first wife. Here is what I can say. Love, marriage , relationships are not easy. In this day and age society tells you if things get rough jump ship swim for another, don't commit yourself to one person
    First off realize there are no perfect relationships
    Second husband and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends fight and argue comes with the territory. This what you have to consider how important is it for you to be right (learn when to fight and when to walk away)
    For me and the wife we have come close to calling it quits numerous times, we haven't because we realize we wouldn't be happy with anyone else
     
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    ....a grave mental disease.
     
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    .. or a temporary hormonal imbalance.
     
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    well.. it is hard to say... there are many things.. and they can vary to each case per case.
    but i can guess... at least this 1 thing for me to be true.

    if i loved someone.. i would NOT want it to be an ONLINE relationship.
    i would want to be with them MORE.. not less.
     
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    No kidding, I am broken and do not apply that towards anyone out there, ya know, it is hard hunting down the right person though. But hey we are only young once. :)
     
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    here is the kicker...

    what if you find a great love...
    but that person has 1 really bad character flaw that is hard to deal with???
     
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    Yeah society beats it into our head that you need to be with someone. I'm ready to be single after a 15 yr relationship. A relationship is like having a second job and is exhausting.
     
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    i feel you.. understand where you are in this matter....
    i have been there... in a relationship that eats at your mental stability. wanting to be just alone and free of strings.

    till you are out there alone... for a SMALL amount of time.
    and feel ... so damn lonely.
    so lonely that the person you just left.. looks good again..
    all the issues seem sooo small compared to the loneliness.
    that is the trap that so many fall into.... INCLUDING ME!

    humans.. mostly are social creatures.
    it is hard to escape it
     
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    I had a relationship once and it was AWESOME for the first few months... But... Things started going very south and very sour after a while.... She kept asking me for money more and more as if loving must mean I must give them must last cent or sell my kidney so she can buy that tablet pc she wanted?

    I must say I loved her even though there were serious flaws and it was awesome...in fact it was REALLY awesome... But... She was just using me and I had to come to according this ... Also she grew up in a very abusive household so she was also abusive tonne sometimes and I couldn't take it any more all the money she kept asking for it was all just too much for me to handle... This is going back about 5 years now give or take but she was just a user...

    I broke up with her and I feel MUCH better for doing so as she was both wonderful but also very toxic and poisonous ... I am lonely because now because there is someone I met at my old work place about 3 years ago I really like her but for some reason I always feel like she will ask me for money that is something that is in the back of my mind.

    I want somebody DECENT and caring that will be caring and supportive the right person for ... but right now I am trying to build my empire as women and relationships can be very expensive it's wonderful but you need to find the right person for you! :)

    For me for example I am more of a personality type "A" so I can be a but crazy or hectic sometimes especially when I want to win.

    She was just a lazy selfish piece of shit however she was also nice and wonderful in certain areas but that's the way it goes.

    Take your time buddy and don't rush remember something like this takes time because if you wish you could make big mistakes.... And remember your wallet doesn't need it either if she is that type of rubbish.

    Trust me your empire should come first :)
     

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    This kid almost has love figured out.

    [​IMG]

    ... almost.
     
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    lol awesome luna :D

    I must admit I love my ex... I miss her we had some really crazy awesome times together... but she didn't want to pull her weight and unfortunately it all went sour :D

    Remember take your time buddy these things take a lot of time especially something so extremely complex like love

    Some love rock and roll... some love jazz and blues.... some love the secure ground and some love to roll the dice.... some love fire ...some love ice....

    Not 1 single experience is like another.... we are all unique...everything is unique all of ours are unique remember that as well :)

    If you want a song that explains what it was like (for me) to be in love it felt freaking addictive as heck it was awesome.... but also VERY toxic.... gotta be poison! by Alice Cooper - great song!



    Also I think that bitch was cheating on me at one point.... be very careful what you wish for.... or what you never even wished for might come slamming on your face wrecking your precious vomer...

    she was awesome but poisonous as well.... be careful young gr(ass) hopper... much trouble lies in the deep waters.... go cautiously and not with haste...



    Yes loneliness can drive us insane but once you have suffered so much it is better being on your own...

    Remember .... make sure you build your empire first.... they can cause all kinds of stupid games and come up with all kinds of tricks... that waste your precious time and your precious resources...

    For me.... I want to find somebody but only someone very special and I will be extra careful this time round... but until then...

    BUILD THAT EMPIRE!!!!!!
     
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    building an empire...

    with no one to share in the splendor..
    kind of deflating...
     
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    hehe lol I will share it but only some day :D

    I don't want to be lonely for ever it will drive insane one day :)
    I already sometimes feel it :(

    the loneliness is scary sometimes... like a black hole with no light just nothing .... an empty void :(



    BUT - until then! :D I will build that empire!!!
     
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    stinky... i only ask for a island paradise to call my own.
    you can have the rest
     
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    Stinky you must find a revelution,even if you could just find it in your head, think about what you are saying in the first place .

    I rather have a house away from people. (Well my current home has been adequette though, in the long run its always plausable.)
     
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