If anyone can help me out I would very much appreciate it.
I'll try.... You'll require a card reader if you want to try this.
Download
GParted LiveCD and burn the .iso to a CD.
Copy anything you require to keep from the memory card to your PC.
Insert the memory card into the reader and connect the latter to the PC.
Boot the PC from the GParted LiveCD and once in GParted itself select the memory card from the drop-down list of volumes top-right.
Delete any partitions on the card.
Warning: double-check you've not selected a hdd by mistake!
Now recreate your required partitions. The first one
must be FAT32, the second ext3. If you're also adding a swap partition it will be third and formatted linux-swap.
Once finished, exit GParted, remove the CD and reboot (right-click to access shutdown menu).
Insert memory card in the handset, switch on and you should notice a lengthy delay during startup as AppsToSD moves everything from internal memory to the ext3 partition.
AppstoSD is not simple to use, I get that, and I'm not a noob
Actually, it should be. Something's gone wrong somewhere with your installation, that's all. Keep the faith - we'll get it sorted.