It's really difficult to recommend something for someone elses needs, since that will always vary with each individual.
I personally purchased a Note 8.0 1 month after release, just because I'm completely sold on the S-Pen and the functionality behind using the S-pen. The only down side that I've found is, after upgrading to the Note 3, from the Note 2, S-Note has become a pain in the butt to SYNC, as compared. Samsung re-wrote the app completely, so SYNC doesn't work flawlessly like it once did. There are a few additional steps now, that didn't exist before.
That said, it's very possible that the SYNC management between the Note 10.1 (2014 edition) and the Note 3 will work well, since the newer Note 10.1 has the newer version of S-Note.
At this point, I've been extremely happy (overall) with my Note 8.0, but have run into the same issues that I was having with the Note 2 (not enough internal storage), so I'll likely be upgrading the Note 8.0 to the newer version (if they come out with a 2014 edition for that as well).
Eventually, I'd like Samsung to release a production model of their concept foldable smartphone. Once they do that, I'll no longer need a portable tablet.