New Joisey? Is that where you are? Both my mother and husband were born there...
...and both escaped to lands of sunshine and temperate climates! My mom's family to Los Angeles, my husband's family to Florida.
Since moving back home in 2006, I really just don't find much to complain about. Sure, it was miserable--OUTSIDE--during our recent record-breaking temperatures (120+ degrees!), but I'm not outside. And when my fellow natives, bundled up in heavy coats, bitch about how cold it is (≈68°) in the winter, I just roll my eyes. I've lived where it actually gets COLD, and I assure you, this is not it! I lived in Dallas during its record-setting, still standing low temperature of -1°. THAT was cold!