Well I'm not sure but I think I may have solved my issues. I've been up now for 62hrs and 23 mins without a lockup our reboot. I stumbled on an issue I think go launcher has with useing a custom background for the wallpaper. I had noticed a slight lag when I used a pic from the galley of my daughter. So I tested my theory and took off the background and used a simple grey background. The lockups and reboots for the last couple of days seem to have lessoned or are gone, maybe its just coincidence, not sure. I was reading on market that people were having issues with go launcher similar to mine, lockups and such. So I'm doing some testing and have uninstalled go launcher and an currently using adw. So far I am impressed with the speed difference and how snappy things are so far. That leads me to my question. I was using go calendar widget which is a monthly widget and syncs with the google calendar events. I can't use it now without having go launcher installed so does anyone have any suggestions on a similar widget? free preferred.