If you go back through the past few weeks, there's a new post almost every day that says "Phone X is coming to Verizon - will you be jumping?" or something along those lines (I've seen it for the N1, I've seen it for the iPhone, among others). Add to that the "Well, phone X will be doing this on network Y - will you be jumping" (Evo 4G, among others), and it's a near-constant deluge of people who seem unhappy with the phone they have. I can see posting it in a general discussion forum or a phone-specific forum for the phone in question (N1, Evo 4G, Incredible, etc), but when it's posted on the forum of a phone that's already been released and widely purchased, it just makes it seem like very few people who visit this particular forum are all that happy with their phones. I will admit that I'm considering making the jump to the Incredible, but that's only because I've been having issues with dust getting into the slider mechanism of my Droid (I work in environmental remediation, so I'm outside a lot, and the work I oversee tends to generate a lot of dust) and I think a one-piece phone would be better suited to keeping dust out. However, this is the first time I've even mentioned the Incredible outside of the Incredible forum, and that was a very specific question about HTC's overall camera quality (one of the few things I actually dislike about my Droid is how subpar its pictures appear when compared with the ones I was able to take with my Omnia).
I, too, was with Cingular/AT&T (only for four years) when the iPhone was released, and, like you, it wasn't my cup of tea. I didn't have any issues with the design or the restrictive OS (at the time I had a Motorola KRZR, so I was completely new to the world of smartphones), it was simply that the AT&T salesman was honest enough to tell me that if I dropped the iPhone (something I do often), it would almost certainly break and I'd be out $400 with no recourse whatsoever. I switched back to Verizon in July of 2008, and I had an LG Voyager from July until December, when I bought an Omnia. I had just about convinced myself through custom ROMs and the like that I did like my Omnia, and then the Droid was released and I realized that it did everything I wanted my Omnia to right out of the box. I had intended to wait for the Nexus 1 to hit Verizon before getting rid of the Omnia, but fate intervened and I fell into the Delaware River, something that's apparently not amenable to the Omnia. It died, I bought the Droid, and I haven't looked back. But the same reason I didn't buy an iPhone is the same reason that I'll probably end up keeping my Droid (and investing in stock for a compressed air company), because I know it can take a pretty substantial drop and come out no worse for the wear. The Incredible looks like it might be too iPhone-esque in that regard, where if I drop it, it's going to break.
So I apologize if you felt I was lumping you in with the iPhone lovers, but that is certainly how it makes the people who start these threads (and the ones who post affirmatively in it) seem - like they bought a Droid only because they couldn't get the iPhone. I do realize that is not the case for everyone, but my initial point remains - threads like these reflect poorly on those of us who do own the Droid, who are (largely) happy with the Droid, and who aren't in the market for another phone.