I noticed this when I had my blackberry and bbm. No one seems to like to chat anymore. When I had bbm, I would add someone and they wouldn't talk or would talk and use one words only. Then you would get the people where I always had to start the conversation. What is the point of having chat programs for no one to speak or chat right away when I start the conversation. I am always interested in meeting new people.....so if you don't do any of the things above, send me a private message and maybe we can chat through gtalk, msn or yahoo im. Thanks.