Great job! A few things in your list I can help deconflict, in my opinion, it'll help.
1. Retinal Display.
I'm all for higher res. I'm an early adopter of HDTV, for example. BUT - here's the deal on that:
a. the eye (+/- a bit for the population) can resolve down to a certain sub-degree (as in 360 degrees).
b. that info is used in the motion picture, TV and HDTV crowds to decide how far you should sit from how big a screen with how much resolution.
c. the idea on one hand is to not have wasted pixels (imagine going a hundred yards out from your tv (turned on) at night - basically, you go far enough away where all you can tell is if it's on or off, and it's a one pixel TV at that point.
d. the idea on the other hand is that you don't want to get so close on the display that the picture disintegrates into a bunch of dots instead of a coherent picture (under that parameter in point a, above).
e. there's a minimum point, in general, for the eye, such that if you get something too close to your face, you cannot focus - it's a blur.
The "Retinal Display" simply says the dot density is so great that you can't get the screen so close you'll only see dots - you'll just get blur from going out of your focus range.
You can test out the idea with your iPod Touch to see if that's important to you or not - your Touch is the same res as rev 3 iPhone.
Personally, I do nothing close up, so the idea of "Retinal Display" is just a waste of resolution to me. Your mileage may vary (YMMV).
The original iPod Touch/iPhone and Evo resolutions seem quite sensible to me for the use case of a personal electronic display.
HTC did the same goofiness with an 8 Mpixel camera where Apple has 5 Mp - just specsmanship. Similarly in a camera, resolution ain't everything - at a certain point, it's the lens quality and the lens size - how much light enters the lens and then gets distributed to each pixel sensor is way more important than Mp.
Until I get proven wrong, I'm going to make fun of all of my iPhone 4 buddies with their wimpy little front facing camera compared to my Evo, but the first time they Skype videochat me and it looks OK, I'm gonna have to shut up. (you know - buddies.
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2.
Facetime
The Evo has a similar screwup called Qik:
Qik on EVO Does Free Video Chat.
I call this a screwup because for video chatting, both lock you to their platforms and have restrictions going outside their little world.
If you want any of the social thingies specific to Facetime or Qik, so be it, you can review and decide on that.
If you want full platform freedom for making video calls you want a
Skype account and you want to wrapper it (access it) via
Fring.
You just install Fring and tell it what transports to manage - Skype, AIM (so you can get to your iChat buddies by text, but not video - it doesn't support the iChat A/V full protocols - again - that's private, but you can get AIM working with iChat A/V - but I've yet to see that on a phone (outside of, bet me that's what Facetime is automagically doing)). Fring also connects to jabber (Google Talk) and MSN and Yahoo Messenger and twitter and SIP and ICQ and your address book.
You want Fring.
Because of Fring and Skype - available and works GREAT for both iPhone and Evo - I call vendor-locked stuff like Facetime and Qik as screwups.
For an iPod Touch replacement, I'd expect you to get your best battery and interface-you're-used-to performance from the iPhone - those have always been marketed as the best iPod there is Jobs himself, from Day One.
3. Safari
OK, I'm a huge Safari fan. But - I'm way happy with the stock browser on my Evo. You zoom in, it reflows, no left-right panning when all you want is up-down scrolling. I've successfully blogged and posted from my Evo browser - plus - I like the rich music on
Magnatune and that works great. (hope you checked out and liked the Trip Wamsley link in my earlier post)
Heavy lifting I leave for my desktop browsing - again - YMMV.
4. AT&T quality
I don't know. I was with them until 3 years ago and the quality was good - for calls anyway. You'll have to make your own decision about their new network phone policies for yourself.
Price is a big killer. I'm one of the two heaviest phone users in our company. The rest of the gang is kinda normal, a few exceptions, they mostly use iPhones. The whole crowd is always complaining to me about usage and "can I call the office phone, it's the end of the month" or "can we chat on the desktop, it's the end of the month" - and every month they report their bill add-ons while I just pay a flat rate with zero worries.
Best phone with a music player attached - Evo
Best music player with a phone attached - iPhone
And that's why I still carry an iPod nano for my heavier music lifting.
Tough decision because you want to go to just one device.
You freaking normal guy, you - shame on you!!