IM app - Manually add/remove Facebook contacts?

[KrzyMoose]

Hey guys,

I'm new to the whole Android scene. I've been checking out a few IM clients, but all of them seem to have the same problem - when I add my Facebook account, they add all of my friends to the buddy list. That's a helluva lot of people, and a lot of them I have no interest in IM'ing ever. In the apps I've tried, I can't seem to get rid of them (Meebo, eBuddy, Fring).

Have you guys found any IM apps that let you manually add or remove Facebook contacts (or, maybe, a way to do that with one of the aforementioned apps)?

Thanks!