I'm writing this with jumbled thoughts and mixed emotions.
For almost fifteen years I've been blessed to work with/for one of my best friends, whom I'll call Mike. We've known each other for nearly thirty years, and Mike is the one who told me about the vacancy for my present job and was instrumental in me getting hired. At the time it was a huge decision, and today it doesn't seem like it was fifteen years ago that I was struggling with it (it involved a career change and an interstate move).
Yesterday, Mike turned in his two weeks' notice. I know he hasn't been really contented for a while (he's the manager of our division, the departmental boss above him changed out about 18 months ago and Mike's job hasn't been a ton of fun since then; indeed, morale in the entire department has suffered). In fact, when he told me about his decision privately, I mentioned that for the past few weeks I've been thinking of asking him if he was considering moving on.
It's going to be really strange coming to work without his presence here. Aside from being a true friend, Mike has been a great boss, pretty much hands-off so long as the work is getting done, not too worried about work area appearance, etc. (a few of us are pretty messy), keeping us all working together as a team and smoothing the rough edges. I'm really happy for Mike, as he's found a similar position that is higher up the food chain in a different organization (he's going from being a division manager to becoming a department director), but I'm not looking forward to the changes that will ensue. For one thing, Mike has been a great insulator from some of the quirky/nonsensical standards and policies elsewhere practiced throughout our organization, and it's going to be odd to have to start "toeing the line" on everything after being here this long. Not to mention that I don't know how often I'll get to see him since our lives outside of work are pretty busy.
Anyway, I just wanted to share this since it's really weighing on my head and heart right now, and we're kind of a wierd little family here on the forum.
Wishing you all stability and happiness in 2016...
For almost fifteen years I've been blessed to work with/for one of my best friends, whom I'll call Mike. We've known each other for nearly thirty years, and Mike is the one who told me about the vacancy for my present job and was instrumental in me getting hired. At the time it was a huge decision, and today it doesn't seem like it was fifteen years ago that I was struggling with it (it involved a career change and an interstate move).
Yesterday, Mike turned in his two weeks' notice. I know he hasn't been really contented for a while (he's the manager of our division, the departmental boss above him changed out about 18 months ago and Mike's job hasn't been a ton of fun since then; indeed, morale in the entire department has suffered). In fact, when he told me about his decision privately, I mentioned that for the past few weeks I've been thinking of asking him if he was considering moving on.
It's going to be really strange coming to work without his presence here. Aside from being a true friend, Mike has been a great boss, pretty much hands-off so long as the work is getting done, not too worried about work area appearance, etc. (a few of us are pretty messy), keeping us all working together as a team and smoothing the rough edges. I'm really happy for Mike, as he's found a similar position that is higher up the food chain in a different organization (he's going from being a division manager to becoming a department director), but I'm not looking forward to the changes that will ensue. For one thing, Mike has been a great insulator from some of the quirky/nonsensical standards and policies elsewhere practiced throughout our organization, and it's going to be odd to have to start "toeing the line" on everything after being here this long. Not to mention that I don't know how often I'll get to see him since our lives outside of work are pretty busy.
Anyway, I just wanted to share this since it's really weighing on my head and heart right now, and we're kind of a wierd little family here on the forum.
Wishing you all stability and happiness in 2016...