My widget combo, per screen:
(reminder: red = paid apps)
-- Trending Topics; Power control; 2 instances of
AnyRSS {center top}
............. AnyRSS permits manual refresh, as well as setting auto-refresh intervals per widget
--
Beautiful Widgets; 2 instances of
More Icons (4x1 per);
AnyRSS {center home}
--
Executive Assistant+ and
Pure Messenger {center bottom}
............... EA includes missed call info, PM does not
............... PM gives me one-tap access to full body of SMS, Facebook, GMail; EA does not
--
MyCoupons (annual subscription), Mini Info, Data Counter;
Toggle: Google Voice,
Car Locator,
Alarmoid, GV Dialer
{left}
-- Aurora search bar; Audio Manager; 2 instances of S2 calendar (present & next month; each 2x1); Agenda (4x1)
{right}
plus Background Running:
-- Missed Call (services: SMS, Calls, Applications)
......... Luv the way incoming SMS now appears full body within notification pull-down area
--
Screebl Pro (essentially, keeps screen on when in use)
--
Twitroid Pro (until
Touiteur Pro quits FCing in the background)
......... set to notify DMs & Mentions
--
Alarmoid (scheduled quiet time, with VIPs allowed thru (per designated google contacts group)
-- Weather Channel (temp in status bar)
-- Google Voice
You also must pay attention to other installed apps, as lagginess can be introduced from a wide variety of sources. I dumped Dolphin browser, replacing it with
xScope. Using Executive Asst's lock-screen futzed stability and introduced lag, so I now just use its widget. Asurion's AddressBook is sure 'nuff pretty, but it caused system-wide flakiness, so it too has been banished.
I've had this fuss-free setup since Thanksgiving, when I finally stumbled onto the magical combo that keeps things peaceful in my particular Droid hood.
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While I'm here, one last point. Once you decide to live in widget land,
battery issues materialize. I didn't want to be a slave to electrical outlets. So, I invested about $50 in a
portable battery charger: (now $60)
Amazon.com: External Battery for Iphone, Iphone 3g, Iphone 3gs, T-mobile G1, Ipod, Sidekick, Blackberry, Nokia, I-UP 5400 Mah: Electronics
I purchased it for my iPhone 3GS, but it comes with multiple tips, one of which works beautifully with my Droid. I get a few charges following one outlet-juiceup, which gets me through the better part of a week. Good buy!
Let us know how you make out. Will likely help someone else!