Apps and Syncing problems

[mrrizzo360]

I have the droid incredible and have been talking to someone with the droid x and have found out several features that i wasn't aware of. I really like some of the stock things the droid x has like the text messaging page/view with the bubbles and the phone keypad for making calls, is there a way for me to get them? or at least something similar? also my phone automatically linked my calander and some of my friends with my facebook app. I tried to delete it and the calander and contacts are still linked, any suggestions of how to fix it? thanks for any future advice