Thanks! After making that post and doing some more searching on this forum I ended up ditching open home in favor of adw launcher ex which made even more of a difference...open home had the tendency to slow down to a crawl after sitting for a while which was really annoying, only fix was to reboot. Doesn't happen at all with adw.
Also changed the default browser to dolphin mini, which sped things up a ton as well while dealing with the browser (either on the internet or just opening/closing the app). Other stock apps have gotten quicker too with this combination, including wifi and the market app both of which used to be pretty laggy. Even the app drawer is smooth and responsive.
To anyone wanting to get the most out of your Behold 2, I'd recommend that combination to anyone...Bearsfan85s latest 1.6 rom + adw launcher (free or ex, tried both but liked the extra customizability and therefore greater speed potential of ex) and dolphin mini browser...for the first time I actually can call this phone quick and responsive at all times and in all situations not just after a reboot...
In any case, it'll do nicely until hopefully 2.1 (or even perhaps 2.2!) is released.
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