help with themeing

[mjd515]

ok i searched all over and i guess no one is as crazy as me so her it goes, i have a droid x with apex v1 on it and i want to use the nex theme that fab made but i also want to keep the standard notification icons, you know the service bars the vibration icon but not so much the battery, so if anyone would be willing to help me through the process of editing the theme to do what i want i would be very thankful