I am currently the most annoyed and upset I have ever been I will hide the whole story as it may get long and some of you may not choose to want to read it.
To me its a little more than a rant and just want some advice of what to do or what can be done
To me its a little more than a rant and just want some advice of what to do or what can be done
My fiance has an older brother age 18, and a younger sister age 13. She also has two step brothers, one age 16 and one age 18, they have always been from the first day i met them nothing but trouble. I got my fiance out of her moms /step dad's house because I wanted to get started on our life together and wanted to get her away from some of the negative things that she would tell me. Now two weeks after her being gone the 16 y/o step brother did something so horrible it makes me sick and just gets me mad. At midnight a few nights ago he went into the his step sister's room and started black mailing her saying if she didn't do what he wanted he would tell her mom and step dad all the boys she likes.. the thing he wanted from her was nothing but bad, and it didn't happen because she immediately ran down to her mom and told her what had happened. Both her mom and step dad were furious with him, and he then told them he was only joking. The next morning his dad brought him to his moms and told her what happened and that he was not going to be allowed over. A couple hours go by and the dad gets a phone call from his oldest son. The older step brother then started saying that his step sister was the one that was demanding everything (after his brother had already admitted to it being a joke). After the conversation he thought his son didn't do anything.. Later that day they get another call from the his mom and she was saying that is was because they step sister is boy crazy and is a bad influence (While she is a straight A student and does nothing in her free time but read). And again later that day they got another call from the mom and this time she changed her story saying it was only meant to be a joke, dropping the whole blame the step sister story, which she would later pick up once again.
The thing that just keeps getting me annoyed is how the stepdad is taking his sons side just because of that reason.. its his son. When you compare the things the two of them have gotten in trouble for the sister: using her moms makeup with out permission, not doing chores when she's told.. the step brother: threatening younger kids in school that his cousin will beat them up, harassing girls, not listening to either parent.. and last weekend he was even brought home in a police car for what I don't know but I know it was another stupid act..
I just can't wrap my head around how he takes his ex wifes word over his step daughter who he has been extremely protective of for the past 7 years, before this one wouldn't know she wasn't his daughter because of how protective he was.. but he always sides with his kids.
I just don't know what to do about the whole issue, because I just can't drop it because every time I do, my fiance tells me another thing thats going on with it. The only charges I know of that can be place against him is maybe extortion and what will that do to a 16y/o? not a whole lot I can imagine. Even if he did this as a joke neither parent should treat the issue lightly
The thing that just keeps getting me annoyed is how the stepdad is taking his sons side just because of that reason.. its his son. When you compare the things the two of them have gotten in trouble for the sister: using her moms makeup with out permission, not doing chores when she's told.. the step brother: threatening younger kids in school that his cousin will beat them up, harassing girls, not listening to either parent.. and last weekend he was even brought home in a police car for what I don't know but I know it was another stupid act..
I just can't wrap my head around how he takes his ex wifes word over his step daughter who he has been extremely protective of for the past 7 years, before this one wouldn't know she wasn't his daughter because of how protective he was.. but he always sides with his kids.
I just don't know what to do about the whole issue, because I just can't drop it because every time I do, my fiance tells me another thing thats going on with it. The only charges I know of that can be place against him is maybe extortion and what will that do to a 16y/o? not a whole lot I can imagine. Even if he did this as a joke neither parent should treat the issue lightly