I'm not the least bit "confused" and could do without the condescending remarks implying I just don't "get it".
There's no implication intended.
It isn't that you are 'out of touch' or whatever, it's that this kind of thing is inevitable. The collective 'we' have had these same arguments over the misuse and abuse of our computing choices and lifestyles for decades, and we will continue to have them for decades more (if not centuries).
Bill Gates came up with an original idea that people should pay the programmer for the
privilege of using their code... for a while.
The user doesn't
own the software (that's the way it used to be, pre-BG), they are merely allowed to use it.
Microsoft doesn't care. At all.
You, the individual user, are not their primary market. Big corporations and governments are. Yes, they are as recalcitrant about progress, et al, as you are, but they are addicted to MS...
That means that with much grousing, grumbling, and dragging of feet they will buy into Windows 8.1 and they will get used to it (probably around the time everyone is carrying on about Windows 10 or whatever...).
If you want to jump off their bandwagon and onto someone else's, then by all means, please do.
Or go your own way, and let a few of us jump on your wagon.