Whether you're male or female has nothing to do with it, lol. I know you're only joking, but the phone is harder to use compared to many other phones, mainly because it's so feature rich. It's the first phone where I've had to read the manual and read forums like this for tips and advice, and I'm usually pretty tech savvy. Unless the hardware is faulty, there's usually always a solution to your problem, but you have to describe it in depth so people can help.