too much emphasis is placed on fixing mess ups.... how about you just don't mess up... lets put more emphasis on that.
But i believe some thought HAS to be on redemption. Not saying he deserves it, or is entitled to it. Just that every once and a while its good to hear someone can turn it around.
I was impressed with this until I heard his predicament was due to his addiction to drugs and alcohol.
Sorry, no respect points for that. Learn to say no the first time, every time.
Again, drugs and alcohol addiction is a SERIOUS problem that touches/affects MILLIONS. I'd be willing to bet everyone has a friend, loved one, family member affected by it.
Even the best of people can fall pray to the temptation of drugs; be it cigarettes, alcohol, pills, coke, heroin, etc....
I have to believe that just cause someone makes the wrong choice that they are not screwed for the rest of their lives! And I do believe that because I spent 3 years doing nothing but smoking crack... EVERY day i woke up and my only thought was 'whos got the crack'
I can't even imagine what life would be like if I was faced with this much negativity from everyone. I took a different path than most, i quit cold-turkey(unless you count all the weed i was smoking) around a year after finally losing my job i'd had for 11 years(i was only 26)
Dont' get me wrong, i'm not for or against this guy. Just voicing my opinion after having spent some time in places i should never had been familiar with and having disappointed and let down EVERYONE i knew. Just glad i had people who didn't give up on me is all i'm saying.
Been clean of everything 5 years now and other than morgage, dr bills, raising kids to not be as ignorant as me, and stress trying to plan a wedding, my life couldn't be better.
Why I waited till the dirt came out on him. He is nothing more than a deadbeat father that abandoned his wife and kids. They should stick him back on the street corner they found him. After all he lied to everyone of being clean from drugs and alcohol on tv on more than one occasion.
And if he doesn't do right by himself and whoever his new employers are he will surely fade away. Its up to him, he he throws this chance away than f*ck him. If he does the
next right thing then power to him.
Either way, one thing i do know is no matter what choices or bad decisions me, or anyone for that matter, have made doesn't make me better than him or anyone else. We, all of us, can only do the
next right thing.
All i can say about dude for real is that.... you wasted this much of your life, don't waste anymore