Why do we have a culture very nearly completely dominated by "shaming" of one kind or another? I ask because of the whole Ashley Graham/Cheryl Tiegs fiasco. It's just the latest, there's been like what 7 or 8 headlines already this year about it, 1 per week or so.
I grew up heavy, picked on, put down, all that. It wasn't until I was in my late 20's that I got control of it and honestly it wasn't until the last 4 years that I actually think I am to the point of not being fat anymore. So I know the damage it can cause.
That said, in this particular case, I don't think Ashley is "fat". She's curvy to be sure but ya know, some of us like that. I'm more likely to think to myself - "man that gal could sure use a cheeseburger and a snickers" more than to say "wow that gal sure needs a treadmill" ... which I know is skinny shaming - though I have not since grade school ever been mean to someone about something like that.
So I ask here, among some of what I consider to be the most intelligent and level headed folks I interact with. What's the deal? Why do we as humans (yea I have been guilty of it on occasion, thinking to myself or spoken under my breath - as I am sure some or most of you have) feel the need to think less of, mock or belittle folks that are different than we are? What causes that neuron to fire? I am always ashamed of myself when physical appearance influences my perception, yet it still happens from time to time.
I don't know, that was just my random thought at the moment.
I grew up heavy, picked on, put down, all that. It wasn't until I was in my late 20's that I got control of it and honestly it wasn't until the last 4 years that I actually think I am to the point of not being fat anymore. So I know the damage it can cause.
That said, in this particular case, I don't think Ashley is "fat". She's curvy to be sure but ya know, some of us like that. I'm more likely to think to myself - "man that gal could sure use a cheeseburger and a snickers" more than to say "wow that gal sure needs a treadmill" ... which I know is skinny shaming - though I have not since grade school ever been mean to someone about something like that.
So I ask here, among some of what I consider to be the most intelligent and level headed folks I interact with. What's the deal? Why do we as humans (yea I have been guilty of it on occasion, thinking to myself or spoken under my breath - as I am sure some or most of you have) feel the need to think less of, mock or belittle folks that are different than we are? What causes that neuron to fire? I am always ashamed of myself when physical appearance influences my perception, yet it still happens from time to time.
I don't know, that was just my random thought at the moment.
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